Great sex requires the releasing of tension that’s been carefully created, built, and simmered for a while. This can happen between two friends over few months, between two people on a five hour date or between two lovers for a lifetime. And since sex is about chemistry and subtle realizations, different scenarios could lead to different kind of sex. I know there are plenty kind of sex scenarios that turn people on or that appeal to them, and I have a few listed below. So you can tell me which one of these kinds of sex you have had and which you think is more fun than others.
Make-up sex is the afterwards release of tension created by an argument or a fight between lovers. Sometimes, there could be a very thin line between anger and sexual excitement, and you might just find yourself crossing that line in order to seal a relationship comeback. Make–up sex itself has the power to heal emotions, and sometimes, when your partner is going on and on about an argument, planting an unexpected kiss on their lips could degenerate very fast into one wild great sex.
BREAK UP SEX
Some of us can’t just resist the art of packing things up on a memorable note. You know the “Let’s just kiss and say goodbye” feeling you have when both of you have decided that the relationship isn’t working. And if you had to say goodbye to your lover forever, what better way to say it and get closure than by experiencing that emotional and sexual intimacy one more time before moving on forever. This has happened to me before and the sex ended up being better than what we had in the last 3 months of relationship itself. So, if you are breaking up amicably, having that mind-numbing break-up sex won’t be such a bad idea.
RANDOM SEX/ONE NIGHT STAND
Random sex most times is devoid of any emotional attachment or love. Neither of the people involved has immediate intention or expectation of establishing a longer-term sexual or romantic relationship. It is all about sex, same day of meeting. You might be at a party, or in a club and find yourself talking to this amazing stranger, and before you both realize it, you are already digging it with this total stranger like there’s no tomorrow. Though you might feel guilty afterwards but it surely would feel amazing while doing it.
Not everyone can stomach the rush of risky sex, but a lot of people get a thrill from the possibility of being caught while having sex. The excitement for some people increases especially if there could be trouble when you get caught with your pants down, because getting it on in illicit places is a bold and exciting move, which may just spice up your sex life an extra notch. Having sex with your girl in her parent’s living room, or doing it in the office once your boss steps out or even at the back of an empty classroom are all risky ventures. It is risky but the spontaneity and excitement of being naughty is worth it.
This is the “grab each other and go at it” style, and it comes highly recommended by me of course. This could happen anytime, anywhere, from the kitchen table, to the bath tub, to the balcony when it’s a bit dark and even in the car while you are in the parking lot.
This type of sex could be when one of two lovers is travelling, and the lovers decide to have it one last time until he/she comes back from the trip; or that last send-forth sex the side chic or assistant boyfriend would engage in with the partner who is about getting married to their main. Let’s not kid ourselves, it happens, men and women do it. But I will advise you keep it for only when your legitimate partner is travelling.
Some guy has just done a lady a great favour without asking for anything prior to the favour or after it, or dude just risked his life saving her from some thugs and area boys, then the girl comes back to say “Thank you” Familiar? Yes, I know it is; you and I must have seen such too many times to know that kind of sex exists. It is also called “Payback in kind”
Sometimes, when something is considered forbidden, it appeals to some people’s desire to test the boundaries and do the wrong thing from time to time. Cheating on your partner with their siblings, hooking up with your best friend’s partner, bedding your partner’s friends are all considered forbidden sex in my book. You can fantasize but don’t do it, it is forbidden because someone, somewhere, will be hurt and the hurt might be too deep.
CONSISTENT CASUAL SEX
This is a.k.a “Friends with benefits” a.k.a “Regular bootycall” and it is when people constantly have sex with someone they generally consider a friend; they are not in an exclusive romantic relationship with that person but they are comfortable having sex regularly and the comfort level grows with each encounter. But, the downside to it is that, at some point someone will care too much, and most likely the one who cares too much, gets hurt for doing so.
So, out of all these, which one(s) have you had? Which one turns you on the most? And which one would you want to add to the list? Drop them in the comment section. Stay Safe.